Do you have to ‘go to church’ at our preferred church to be married there?
No. As with any Parish Church in England, anyone who lives in the Parish of Ross, Walford or Brampton Abbotts automatically qualifies to be married in any of our churches (though please be aware that Brampton Abbotts Church is currently closed).
In addition, you are also eligible if one of you:
- has at any time lived in the parish for a period of six months or more, OR
- was baptised (‘christened’) in any of our churches, OR
- was confirmed in one, OR
- has at any time regularly gone to normal church services for a period of six months or more, OR
if one of your parents, at any time after you were born:
- has lived in the parish for a period of six months, OR
- has regularly gone to normal church services in the Benefice for six months, OR
- if one of your parents or grandparents was married here.
We’re sorry this is all a bit complicated – Please have a word with us if you’re still not sure whether you qualify and we’ll do our very best to make it work.
Is it a problem if one of us is divorced or if one of us is a foreign national?
No – not as a rule, however if either of these applies to you then you need to contact one of the team to let us know.
What other choices do we have?
The words of the service are fixed (although you can choose between the traditional or more modern language options), however any additional readings or poems, all the music and whether you want the choir, the bells or any extra flowers are all up to you.
The service can be filmed if you wish and the photographer can take photos throughout (as long as they are discreet action shots during the service itself, with specially posed photos done before and after).
Do we have to get married on a Saturday?
No – it can be any day of the week (including Sundays) as long as the time slot is free. It does have to be between 8.00am and 6.00pm however (legally we can’t do evening weddings yet).
If we have been married elsewhere, could we have a ‘Blessing’?
Yes, whether you would have just been married or are celebrating an anniversary from some years before. As a service of ‘Blessing’ isn’t governed by Marriage Law, you would not have to ‘qualify’ by living here or by one of the other categories above. There is no cost for the service itself (we invite a donation instead) but any of the extras you might wish to include would cost the same as above.
What about the reception?
Well the great news is we can help there too. In March 2019 St Mary’s completed the final stage of freeing up the internal space in the main body of the church which means that we now have a totally flexible interior that could easily accommodate a wedding reception. No one has done this yet but if you’d like to be the first we’d be excited to work with you to bring it about. Please let us know.